Aging is one of the most
human experiences there is.
It deserves to be treated that way.
I work from a simple belief that growing older is not a problem to be managed.
It is a life to be held.
About
This work has been with me my whole life.
I always spent time with older adults. In my late teens, I worked in a funeral home, sitting with families in the hours after someone died, watching what people carried into those rooms: the objects, the stories, the things they wished they'd said.
What I kept noticing across a lifetime of this work wasn't a lack of care. It was a lack of consideration. That gap is solvable. Solving it has become my practice.
Read my full story →Flagship Offering
Remembering Together
Some of the most important things we know about the people we love have never been asked about. Remembering Together is a structured practice for changing that, through collective reminiscence, shared meaning, and the kinds of conversations that leave everyone in the room different for having had them.
Available as a self-guided digital experience and facilitated sessions. An immersive public installation is in development.
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Thought Leadership
Speaking & Workshops
I speak where psychology, memory, design, and aging meet. The goal isn't to leave people with more information. It's to leave them seeing the people in front of them differently.
More information →Organizations & Institutions
Consulting
The environments and systems built around aging communicate something before anyone speaks. Most send the wrong message, not through malice, just without thinking it through.
Let's connect →Individuals & Families
Guided Support
For people standing at the threshold of something they didn't entirely choose. Nine sessions over three months. Structured, grounded in clinical practice, but it will feel like someone finally had time for the real conversation.
Start a conversation →Selected Posts
Things worth considering.
How we talk about aging shapes how we experience it. Writing through psychology, memory, culture, and a lifetime of noticing.
Read on Substack →
An Invitation
Every conversation begins somewhere. Let's begin here.
Whether you are a family navigating memory change, an organization rethinking how it holds the people in its care, or a production asking harder questions about how aging is represented, there is a place to start.
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